Moving towards joy (light) you need to see both “twin” complementary perspectives. Quantum physicist Fred Allen Wolf (Dr. Quantum) says regarding solar-lunar,
The quantum physics term, superposition, is useful to understand another dimension of healthy union that help brings completion and joy. In lay person’s terms: when two waves move through the same space, and their crests peak together it is called superposition, the result being greater than the sum of the parts. The two waves unite and their individual energy or strength is amplified beyond their respective energies. Likewise, joy comes of a kind of superposition of empathic resonance between two people. However, if you have gender prejudices or any binary split you cannot achieve superposition, or union, or perform the dance of life as a unified wave.